Dear Pastor Fatoyinbo: It is almost two and half years since a female
member of your church alleged that you had been sleeping with her. You
had almost immediately promised a "robust reply soon" but there has been
no response at all from you let alone a robust one. No reasonable
person expects you or any pastor to be a saint but as a leader and role
model, and someone who occupies a position of trust, people expect
accountability from you.
There is a lot wrong with the church in Nigeria today - Pentecostal
pastors are in competition with themselves to accumulate wealth from the
tithes and offering of their members; some will stop at nothing to
exploit the desperate situations of our people to enrich themselves
including making bogus claims about faith healing, paying dodgy
characters to fake miracles on stage, making fuzzy pronouncements which
they call prophecies, giving patients false reassurances and encouraging
them to stop taking their medications with devastating consequences;
some pastors own private jets bought with the tithes of their members
some of whom cannot even feed their families; many of them sleep with
their vulnerable female members who come to them for help. A medical
doctor would lose their licence to practise or could even get jailed if
they did that to their patient, but somehow our society has different
standards for religious institutions and their leaders. Pastors have
god-like statures and a cult-like following, which can overwhelm their
naive members; and this often stops members from speaking out against
sexual or psychological abuse. One thing we can learn from history is
that when accountability is lacking, then a culture of abuse, corruption
and exploitation becomes entrenched in a society and its institutions
e.g. the sexual abuse of teenage boys by Catholic priests.
This is not an attack on your person or morality. Personally, I am
not convinced that religion makes people good; indeed, believers are
guilty of every sin that their holy books accuse unbelievers of. This is
about accountability, a quality that is grossly lacking in Nigerian
society. It is the reason there is a church on practically every street
but our country consistently tops the list of the most corrupt nations
of the world. How can influential pastors like you speak truth to power
or rebuke our corrupt government officials and politicians if they
themselves are unaccountable?
It is time to walk the talk and live by what you preach. In the name
of the God you worship and on whose behalf you claim to speak, I urge
you to honour your promise and publish your robust reply now. I have
refrained from discussing the online abuses, aggressions and
psychological trauma that Miss Walters was subjected to by many of your
admirers and supporters who naturally assumed that being a woman she was
lying against you, a man of God who can do no wrong. You need to set
the record straight - a good name is better than riches. You owe this to
yourself, your family, your church members, all those who look up to
you, and the society in general. To whom much is given, much is also
expected.
Yours truly,
Ijabla Raymond
Ijabla is a medical doctor and he writes from the UK. Contact him at ijabijay@me.com
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